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What I'm Watching on #Netflix

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

This week's picks from Netflix Instant Watch:

TV Show:
SupernaturalSupernatural. I have been plotting my summer television marathons and this show wasn't on my list until Damon played an episode one night. I became an instant fan! It's part X-files, part Hardy Boys with a pinch of Vampire Slayer. What's not to like about two achingly gorgeous brothers who kick paranormal butt?!





Movie:
BernieBernie. A dark, funny, and ultimately sweet story about a popular funeral director in Northeast Texas who is put on trial for the murder of a wealthy and unpopular widower. The story is so hokey that you wouldn't buy it if wasn't based on a real story. The casting is what sells it. Jack Black immerses himself in the titular character, Shirley MacClaine gives weight to the role of acerbic Southern widower, and Matthew McConaughey is a hoot as the DA prosecuting Bernie in a town full of potential jurors sympathetic to the defendant.


What I'm Watching on #Netflix

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

This week's picks from Netflix Instant Watch:

Movie:
Young AdultYoung Adult. Charlize Theron can make any movie watchable including this overwrought piece of dark comedy. In brief Mavis Gary is a divorced, alcoholic writer with serious depression who returns to her small hometown to reclaim her high school sweetheart. Standing in her way is the former boyfriend's wife and newborn baby, oh, and a sad but funny, classmate played by Patton Oswalt who acts as her conscience. Like its emotionally-stunted lead character, this movie has a lot of growing up to do.

Convos from the Backseat #5

Thursday, February 14, 2013

I'm still experimenting with this meme inspired by my conversations in the car with my chatterbox in the backseat. I really want to make it a link-up too, maybe once a month so we can share our best talks with our toddlers/preschoolers.


on the way home from preschool last Thursday, Marlie decides to start talking about color (as in race). Out of the blue, She blurts out...

Marlie: Mommy, I'm black 

Me: Okay (followed by laughter). 
Marlie: Why are you laughing at me? 
Me: I'm not. I am just surprised and happy that you know that. Where did you learn that you are black? 
Marlie: I saw a wormy squirmy today. 
Me: (Now I am confused, but I want to stay on topic). Is the wormy squirmy black? 
Marlie: No, he's slimy! 
Me: Okay. Is daddy black? 
Marlie: Yes. 
Me: Is mommy black? 
Marlie: No. You are yellow. 
Me: (doing a double take). Mommy is black too. 
Marlie: No! I want you to be yellow. 
Me: If you say so (shaking my head. no sense in arguing with her at this ages because apparently she thinks I am a crayon)

...to be continued

Convos from the Backseat #4

Thursday, November 29, 2012

I'm toying with a new meme inspired by my conversations in the car with my chatterbox in the backseat. I would like to make it a link-up too. Let me know what you think!

Monday's conversation while driving home from preschool...

Marlie: Are we going to see the fireman station?
Me: Yes, I always drive past the fire station on the way home.
Marlie: One time daddy and me went inside!
Me: Did you like it?
Marlie: Yep, but I was shy.
Me: What does shy mean?
Marlie: It means I was not happy.
Me: But I thought you liked going inside the fire station. I think shy means you didn't talk to the fireman.
Marlie: Oh.
Marlie: Do firemen like Popsicle?
Me: I'm sure they do.
Marlie: Can we make some Popsicle for the firemen right now?
Me: It's too cold for Popsicle.
Marlie: Why?
Me: It's winter and the firemen probably want stuff that keeps them warm like soup and hot cocoa.
Marlie: And spicy chicken?
Me: um, sure.
Marlie: I don't like spicy chicken cause it make my tongue hot and I tell daddy. But I like chicken without the spicy.
Me: Oh.


What I'm Watching on #Netflix

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

This week's picks from Netflix Instant Watch:

TV Show:
Once Upon A TimeOnce Upon A Time. Damon clued me into this fantasy series on ABC and it wasn't hard to get addicted. I am a fan of modern twists on classic fairy tales and this show does not disappoint. The concept is so simple and clever that it's genius...take your favorite storybook characters, give them a case of wicked amnesia, and plop them in a sleepy 21st century New England town controlled by The Evil Queen? It has cast a spell on me!


Movie:
Marion Jones 30 for 30: Marion Jones: Press Pause. ESPN produces a series of sports documentaries that chronicle some of the most dramatic athletic stories in the past 30 years. Being a devout track fan, I felt compelled to watch this film about the disgraced Olympic star because I was curious about what happened to her. Guest Director John Singleton is unflinching but compassionate in his portrayal of Marion. He digs into the scandal, but mostly focuses on her road to redemption. Marion is a wife, mother of three, churchgoer, motivational speaker and surprisingly still an athlete.

Three Things I'm Loving This Thursday

Thursday, November 15, 2012

I really need to start doing this meme again, it helps me take stock of all the things I enjoy. This week I am loving...
  • Spoofs. Have you seen Brad Pitt's existential Chanel No.5 commercial? It's meant to be serious, but it's Hi-larious! I think they've pulled the ad spot after all the spoofs started showing up on YouTube. SNL did a whole series of them too. But my favorite is Kennel No.5 by the charity Pet Collective.

  • 1950s portable television set
    New TV Shows. It's been awhile since I got excited about the fall television season, but a few scripted shows have won me over this year: the military drama Last Resort on ABC, the juicy country music prime time soap Nashville also on ABC and FOX's adorkable The Mindy Project. I also watch on occasion: Guys with Kids (NBC) and Go On (NBC), but these comedies are a bit stiff and don't see them sticking around for long. Remember when NBC was the comedy king?!
    Image Credit:By Photographer: Hana Kirana (Flickr.com - image description page) [Public domain or CC-BY-2.0], via Wikimedia Commons

  • GLEE. I hit a rough patch with my beloved musical-drama-comedy series. Too many transitions. Too many new faces. Rachel and Kirk in New York. But I should have been faithful. The how soon hit its stride and now they are preparing to perform Grease! I am shivering in anticipation, DVR at the ready. Grease is the word. Image Credit: By Aldolol (Own work) [CC-BY-SA-3.0], via Wikimedia Commons

    What are you loving this Thursday?! Leave it in your comment :-)

Convos from the Backseat #3

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

I'm toying with a new meme inspired by my conversations in the car with my chatterbox in the backseat. I would like to make it a link-up too. Let me know what you think!

Last Friday's conversation while on the way to a playdate...

Marlie: Is Halloween happen already mommy?
Me: Yes
Marlie: So no more Halloween?
Me: Nope
Marlie: Why not?
Me: Because it's finished.
Marlie: Why it finished?!
Me: (rolling eyes) It's over for now until next time.
Marlie: But my candy is gone, the bad wolf took it! (side note: She got plenty of treats, but we threw out/gave away the bulk. Then her father told her the Big Bad Wolf stole it. Nice, I know)
Me: But you got to eat some of it, right?
Marlie: But the Bad Wolf took the rest of it and he took my bucket and went on the plane to see his family. And I need to go on the plane so I can get my bucket back and he not going to blow my house down cause I'm Batman!
Me: Okay then!


Convos from the Backseat #2

Thursday, September 27, 2012

I'm toying with a new meme inspired by my conversations in the car with my chatterbox in the backseat. Let me know what you think!

Last Friday's conversation while sitting in traffic...

Marlie: Mommy, look at ALL these cars!
Me: It looks like a sea of cars, right?
Marlie: Yeah! Where are the people going, mommy?
Me: Where do you think they are going?
Marlie: Places!
Me: Like what places?
Marlie: To school, to work, back home to eat breakfast!
Me: Oh really? And where are we going?
Marlie: The park!
Me: That's right. As soon as these cars move.
Marlie: Come on cars! Let's go!


Convos from the Backseat

Thursday, August 23, 2012

I'm toying with a new meme inspired by my conversations in the car with my chatterbox in the backseat. Let me know what you think!


Yesterday's Conversation...

Marlie: Mommy, the baby doesn't have any teeth
Me: I know honey, he's a baby
Marlie: Mommy, do you have any teeth?
Me: Yes I do
Marlie: I don't have a tail (her word for p_nis) like the baby.  Do you have a tail mommy?
Me: No Marlie. Girls don't have tails. I'm a girl.
Marlie: You're not a girl, you're a mommy!
Me: I'm a girl too.
Marlie: Oh. What's your name?
Me: Teresha
Marlie: What's daddy's name?
Me: Damon
Marlie: What's the baby's name?
Me: Desmond
Marlie: What's my name?
Me: Marlie, silly!
Marlie: What's that man's name?
Me: Where?
Marlie: Over there!
Me: I don't know Marlie.

Marlie: Why?
Me: Because mommy doesn't know everything!

Things I'm Loving This Thursday

Thursday, August 9, 2012

I haven't done one of these lists in forever. I have so much to celebrate. This week I am loving...
  • Oakland. This is a city of natural wonders. The Bay is to the west, the hills are to the east. Inside are Lake Merritt (pictured. where everyone goes to get their walk/run on) and Lake Temescal (where everyone goes swimming). Did I mention the Sibley Volcanic Regional Preserve for hiking? I am thankful everyday that we moved here. Photo credit: c) David Corby (User:Miskatonic) 2006 under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 3.0 Unported license.

  • The premiere of "Totally Biased" with W. Kamau Bell on FX. Damon's cousin has his own late night talk show produced by Chris Rock that airs tonight 10 CST/11EST on FX. I promise you this brother is hilarious. I'm not just saying that because he is family. Check it out.

  • Flag of JamaicaJamaica. The land of my grandparents and parents celebrates 50 years of independence and dominating the track events at the Olympics. Image credit: This vector image was created with Inkscape by SKopp, and then manually redrawn by Zscout370, Madden and others. (Own work) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

What are you loving this Thursday?! Leave it in your comment :-)

What I'm Watching on #Netflix

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

This week's picks from Netflix Instant Watch:

TV Show:
Ralphie May: Austin-tatious. Do you remember the reality competition program Last Comic Standing? I forgot about it too until I saw Ralphie May's comedy special in my Netflix library. He was runner-up on the first season. You know how so they say it's better not to win the talent show? So true in Ralphie's case. I thought he was the funniest guy on that competition stage and he proves just how gut-busting hilarious he is in this comedy special. He rifts on everything from his pregnant wife to the ghost of Anna Nicole Smith. I couldn't help but do a spit take when he explained how he got away with naming his newborn daughter April June May. Heads up: his humor is off-color.

What I'm Watching on #Netflix

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

This week's picks from Netflix Instant Watch:

TV Show:
Drop Dead Diva. I fell for this show after watching Season 1 on Netflix, but I could never catch it on TV. Now Seasons 2 and 3 are available to watch instantly. I gobbled them up in a few days. The show continues where it left off with the spirit of deceased model Deb Dobkins now living in the body of voluptuous super attorney-at-law Jane Bingham. Jane is the magnetic glitter glue that pulls the show together and she is both funny and charming. Each episode centers around eccentric court cases that serve as metaphors for the real-life struggles of the lawyers of the Harrison|Parker firm. It is comedy and drama, this is my kind of show!

Movies:
Take Me Home Tonight. This comedy throwback to the rockin' 80s stars two of my favorite comedic actors Topher Grace (Matt Franklin) and Anna Faris (Wendy Franklin) as fraternal twins who are trying to figure out their next steps post-college. Matt decides to spend the last weekend of summer pursuing his high school crush and pulls some crazy stunts in an effort to woo her. The movie is kind of cliche, but has some winning moments. The music, lingo, and wardrobe are spot-on (Aquanet, gangster rap, and popped collars on pastel Polo shirts are prominently featured), but these nostalgic prop devices only made me wish the filmmakers paid more attention to the story and jokes than to getting the soundtrack right because this movie could have been epic funny (see: The Wedding Singer as a good example).

What I'm Watching on #Netflix

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

This week's picks from Netflix Instant Watch:

TV Show:
Saturday Night Live: The 2010s. After I became a mom in 2009 it became impossible to stay up late to watch SNL, now I can catch up thanks to Netflix. The only downside is they cut out the musical performances (licensing?). The 2010 season kicks off with Amy Poehler returning as the guest host. It's no secret that the show usually goes through a decline after it loses major cast members, but this season is different. For the premiere, SNL trots out tons of former alumni  who pass the torch to Fred Armisen, Seth Meyers, Andy Samberg, Jason Sudeikis and Kristen Wiig. Then there is the promising new cast, especially Jay Pharoah and his spot-on impersonations of Will Smith and Denzel Washington and Vanessa Bayer and her "Miley Cyrus Show." Funny times are ahead!

Movies:
Melancholia. The movie opens with an extended visual prologue that feels like watching an impressionist painting come to life in slow motion. It's very visually arresting. This film is about two planets on a collision course and two sisters who handle the impending doom in opposing ways. Claire is the responsible older sister and Justine is the tortured younger sister who self-destructs on her wedding day. The movie made a splash at Cannes last year for the wrong reasons after director Lars Von Trier was thrown out for making comments sympathizing with Hitler (that's illegal in France).

What I'm Watching on #Netflix

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

This week's picks from Netflix Instant Watch:

TV Show:
Mad Men. Quiana over at Harlem Love Birds recommended this show so I decided to give it a whirl. I almost didn't make it past the pilot episode. The show is froth with sexism and racism. Plus, there is the ubiquitous cigarette smoking...in the bedroom, in the office, on the train, on the elevators, in the bathroom, while washing dishes. I get it, everyone smoked back then. The misogynistic and racist jokes are a little overboard too. I get it, it was the 1960s. I was all a little too much for my palette, but I pushed through. I'm now five episodes in and glad I gave it a second chance. I want to know what secrets Mr. Don Draper is hiding. I also see that Miss Peggy is going to be a major player and I plan to stick it out see what that girl has up her sleeve!


Movies:
No Strings Attached. Two words: skip. it.








What I'm Watching on #Netflix

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

This week's picks from Netflix Instant Watch:

TV Show:
Saved by the Bell. I spent my entire junior high years parked in front of the TV on Saturday morning to watch this show. Viewing it as an adult is even better. I can truly recognize it's brilliance. They way they position the archetypes: Zack, Mr. Popular; A.C. Slater, The Jock; Kelly, The Beauty; Lisa, The Fashion Plate/Gossip; Jessie, The Brain; and Screech, the Lovable Nerd and the teen issues they tackled were really groundbreaking. The show stayed fresh, even when some of the cast returned as 5th year seniors, I kept watching.


Movies:
Being Elmo.I recently listened to a NPR interview with Elmo creator/puppeteer Kevin Clash and was captivated by his story. I immediately searched my Netflix library for his documentary film and was thrilled that it was available. This heartwarming movie retraces Kevin's journey from a 10-year-old boy in suburban Baltimore who decides he wants to be a professional puppeteer to working with his idol Jim Henson to his fateful union with Elmo.


What I'm Watching on #Netflix

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

This week's picks from Netflix Instant Watch:

Movies:
The Lincoln Lawyer, a film about the seedy underbelly of the criminal justice system stars exceedingly handsome Matthew McConaughey as slick LA criminal defense attorney Mick Haller who works out of his Lincoln Town Car...get it? Mick gets caught up in a shady case involving a wealthy client that puts him, his family and friends in danger and he has to find a way to get disentangled while seeing justice done. It's a decent crime thriller with a bumping soundtrack.


My Childbirth Influences and Experience: From my Foremothers to Erykah Badu #blackbirth

Welcome to the First Edition of the Black Birth Carnival. Hosted by Darcel of The Mahogany Way Birth Cafe and Nicole of Musings From The Mind of Sista Midwife. Our first topic is Birthing While Black: A Historical Perspective. At the end of this post you will find a list of links to the other participants. Some of these posts may contain Emotional Triggers and will be labeled at the beginning of the post.
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My mother and her mother are from a small Caribbean island called Jamaica. Maybe you’ve heard of it. My grandmother gave birth to six live children at home in rural St. Elizabeth Parish. Her own mother or the village midwife assisted with each delivery. Doctors were expensive, far away, and only fetched for in cases of emergency. A woman in labor was not considered a medical condition in need of doctor care. My grandmother birthed six healthy children who grew up and had kids of their own. My mother was her fourth child. Mommy also gave birth to six live children, but in the United States. 
I am the oldest, born in the defunct Fordham Hospital in Bronx, NY. My sister after me was born in a Manhattan hospital and the rest of my siblings were all born in hospitals in Miami. 

I am more than a little curious to know how a family goes from midwife-assisted home birth to doctor-administered hospital birth in one generation. Immigration and assimilation are two obvious answers, but I think it goes deeper. In rural, impoverished Jamaica my grandmother had no choice. In America, where doctors are plentiful and easily accessible, even for the poor, I cannot imagine my grandmother encouraging my mother to deliver at home under the supervision of a midwife. It was a symbol of “moving on up” to give birth in a hospital, especially a private one. It’s what any old-school Jamaican woman from “de yard” would want for her daughter. 

Even in a hospital setting with all its medical technology and procedures available to her, my mother maintained an old-fashioned outlook on birth, particularly that it was a natural process that women’s body were built to perform. She eschewed epidurals and other medical interventions during all her births. All six of us were born naturally, promptly breastfed (for varying lengths of time), and raised with a natural parenting style. Growing up, I remember our meals were always home-cooked and heavy with fresh vegetables. There was never junk food in our cupboards and we didn’t eat fast food except on rare occasions. My mom kept an arsenal of homeopathic remedies to treat every childhood ailment from whooping cough to ringworm. We only went to the doctor for our annual check-up and received the minimum required vaccines to attend school. Chickenpox was considered a childhood rite of passage. 

When I became pregnant with my first child, I wanted to follow in the footsteps of my foremothers and continue the tradition of natural birth and parenting. So I was beyond surprised by mommy’s and grandma’s reaction to my birth choices. On my decision to give birth naturally at a birthing center with a midwife…“Is that going to be safe? What happens if something goes wrong?” On my decision to breastfeed past six months…“you should add formula so you can get a break.” On my decision to cloth diaper…“why do you want to create more work for yourself?” 

I chalked up the rude questions and comments to maternal concern. No mother wants to see her daughter in pain or suffering. I forged ahead with my birth plan, which wasn’t executed according to my vision but achieved the desired outcome. During the first 10 hours I was in labor I kept picturing my grandmother squatting in her bedroom and pushing out six babies. Surely, I could do it at least once! When it was time to push I wanted to squat too, but my midwife, a former nurse, insisted I lie on my back and lean forward. She didn’t respect my instincts and she certainly didn’t understand my need to spiritually connect with my roots. After several attempts to do it her way, I was transported to a hospital at the 11th hour because my baby girl was in distress. When I arrived I was greeted by a black, female obstetrician who took my hand and said, “let’s go get your baby.” A sense of peace washed over me as she led me to the labor and delivery room. Inside, a squadron of nurses were busily preparing trays of medical tools and the feeling of dread returned. The OB examined me, said my baby needed to be turned, and politely asked if I would like an epidural.” I honestly wavered for a minute, bust said no. The OB reached in and gave my baby a quarter turn, and my daughter arrived two pushes later. It hurt like hell, but I’d do it all over again to bring her into this world 100% au natural. The pain quickly evaporated in the euphoria of holding my daughter and nursing her for the first time. 

I have never discussed my first birth experience from a racial perspective. I’m not saying that the white midwife was incapable of delivering black babies, but she was culturally incompetent. For example, when she asked to touch my natural hair during an appointment or when she chastised my pregnancy smallness with the comment that, “black women usually don’t have a problem gaining weight,” it put a divide in our relationship and hung a cloud of suspicion in my mind. I think I carried these misgivings into my labor on a subconscious level. Could I have said something? Yes, but it’s not my job to point out her racial insensitivity or reprogram her ignorance. A more aware professional would have recognized what a huge milestone natural childbirth was for a black woman in today’s society. She would have embraced my color by recommending books for me to read or sharing copies of articles by black midwives. After all, among the small percentage of women who are opting for natural childbirth in this country, black women are an even smaller, um, minority. 

Overall, I am filled with pride when I recall my birth story. I feel like I have drawn another notch on my maternal lineage and brought my heritage full circle. I can’t help but think about the black women during slavery who gave birth in cotton fields without pain meds, slung their newborns on their backs and kept picking or the mammies who nursed their master’s children. I wholeheartedly believe their spirit and strength is in the blood of every modern black woman. Natural childbirth and breastfeeding is a part of our history that we should embrace. Too many of us are surrendering our bodies and babies to modern science (formula), miseducation (a hospital is the only safe place to give birth), and myths (breastfeeding spoils babies). I am all for a woman choosing to give birth and raise her child the way she sees fit as long as she is making an informed decision. I applaud midwives and doulas like Erykah Badu who are reaching out to the African-American community and providing real birth education and offering alternative birth options.

I am currently preparing for the birth of my second child any day now and my first prayer is to deliver a healthy baby, but a close second prayer is for another natural birth.
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Please take time to read the other submissions for the Black Birth Carnival. These are very touching, thought-provoking posts
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Nicole - Musings From The Mind of Sista Midwife: Our History Does Not Have To Be Our Future Darcel - The Mahogany Way Birth Cafe: What Happened To Our Strength? Takiema - Connect Formation Consulting: Black & Still Birthing - A Deeply Personal Post Teresha - Marlie and Me: My Childbirth Influences and Experiences: From my Foremothers to Erykah Badu Denene - My Brown Baby: Birthing While Black In The Jim Crow South Stole My Grandmother: Thankfully, Things Change Olivia - The Student Midwife: Birthing While Black: A Historical Perspective of Black Midwives Chante - My Natural Motherhood Journey: Homebirth Stories

What I'm Watching on #Netflix

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

This week's picks from Netflix Instant Watch:

TV Show:
Louie. NYC comedian Louis CK is a stand-up comedian and a rascal. He provides hilarious running commentary on everything in his real life from raising daughters to dating and mixes in clips from his act.Then he serves it up on a cold plate of truth. The man pulls no punches about how sad and pathetic he can be and you will laugh..


Movies:
Rabbit Hole.It's refreshing to see Nicole Kidman back to her normal acting self. She must have gotten the memo about laying off the Botox because her face hasn't looked this natural in years. Rabbit Hole is an unflinching look at a marriage cracking under the weight of the loss of a child. Becca (Kidman) and Howie (the always sublime Aaron Eckhart) find comfort in different places and with different people, but have yet to be a comfort to each other.


Comment Consideration #3

Monday, February 13, 2012

I received the same request in two comments on my Randomly Yours post, so I figure why not give a little comment consideration...

Krissy said...you know I love randoms! I wanna see this pic of you with long hair, I cant even picture it!

Kim said...I'd like to see pics of you with the long hair....
  • Okay, curious people. I never understood the fascination with hair, but I will indulge you since I put it put there. I had to go digging around on Facebook  because: 1. I don't get in front of the camera often, and 2. I didn't have a digital camera back then, but I found this one picture of me that a friend took and a photo of a scrapbook page with another photo:

Growing it out circa Fall 2006
My hair at it's longest. Summer Vacation 2007
Now tell me I don't look better with shorter hair.

Wordless Wednesday: Building Castles

Wednesday, February 8, 2012



Baby girl loves to "build castles." I think she is going to be an architect.



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